This week, men explores their sex, kinks, and boundaries after staying in a heterosexual relationship: 34, in a polyamorous commitment, Philly.

DAY ONE

8:30 a.m.

I get up Sunday morning in J’s western Village apartment. We found 12 years back at a party (whenever I ended up being straight in which he had been a lady) and severely disliked each other. We lately reconnected when I noticed him tweeting about his split up and subsequent changeover. We slid inside DMs to welcome him to the queer divorcé dance club.

My ex and that I had been collectively for seven decades. Our wedding unsuccessful simply because we grew apart. We moved poly as an endeavor to regenerate it, which had been a disaster. Whenever I was actually all of a sudden in a position to big date again, we realized I happened to be keen on males (a realization that happened in the gymnasium, naturally).

Anyway, J is a great twink — both boyish and delicate. We see both every few weeks and talk a lot in-between.

9 a.m.

J and I also fuck before my personal coach back to Philly. I can tell J loves being a son and loves fucking and being fucked by different boys. Offering him that knowledge is just as pleasing once the intercourse alone.

11 a.m.

From shuttle, I text my personal girl, K, exactly who lives in Boston and is also going to on Thursday. We’ve been performing long-distance over the past seven-ish several months. I tell her about my personal week-end with J, whom she is met. It is cheesy poly shit, but I’m pleased that my personal girl is now friends with some one I’m watching.

7 p.m.

We stop a game title of

Elden Ring

to jack down.

11 p.m.

I turn off my PlayStation and book both K and J good night.

DAY TWO

9 a.m.

I do my WFH spreadsheets work in ad technology. Mundane, whatever.

1 p.m.

Message a to confirm that individuals’re gonna hang out afterwards. They get back to me a little future to confirm.

6:30 p.m.

Yoga course.

9 p.m.

an and I also cuddle within our lingerie. They were a routine next beside me additionally the person I found myself online dating during COVID, but ever since then, we’ve been attempting (and a failure) to reconnect for a while.

an is a professional performer and it has an absolutely wonderful human body. We don’t find yourself setting up, however it feels good to-be with these people. They’ve viewed a large section of my queer development during the last 2 years. They let me know they may be moving to the West Coast for a-dance job. I tell them I’m delighted for them, though independently i am sad, desiring I’d prioritized seeing them more.

11 p.m.

We find out with an in their foyer until my Uber shows up. I’m regretful that i did not try and begin a hookup earlier in the day. We promise to hold completely before they allow.

time THREE

9 a.m.

Record onto work, check always some email messages.

9:30 a.m.

Feed my personal sourdough beginning. I make breads for a regular queer potluck I go to with C, a nonbinary drag king I’ve been watching notably on a regular basis. I text all of them guaranteeing they’re going to the potluck tomorrow. In addition text V, the pilates instructor i am expected to see this evening. She’s wonderful abs, big eyes, and a blonde mullet. She actually is got that yoga-teacher crunchiness (that we seriously have actually a thing for).

2 p.m.

We ask K about her programs for today. She’s going to a manuscript signing about queer background with a lady she is watching. I inform her that i am witnessing V this evening. We’re both delighted for each and every other.

7 p.m.

We bike to V’s spot. She can make vegan ramen. Before long, we’re naked in her own room. V really loves that I’m able to toss the girl around and pin their down — I was a powerlifter and a bodybuilder for many years before using pilates — and that I love how bendy and flexible she’s. We grab her up and running and shag their while taking a stand for somewhat, that I can tell transforms the girl on. She comes a lot of times and then asks me to arrive. I assist.

10:30 p.m.

My personal feet are so fatigued and sore that i have to cycle home standing up.

11 p.m.

K texts me a cute selfie of her along with her date. We tell their I’m hoping she has an enjoyable some time and start

Elden Ring

to try out for an hour before going to sleep.

DAY FOUR

7 a.m.

We get up to a text from K on how she had a lot of homosexual gender. Hell yeah.

11 a.m.

The loaves of bread look wonderful. I grab a photo that We post to Instagram and Twitter and deliver to any or all I’m connecting or flirting with.

5:30 p.m.

I visit see C ahead of the potluck. We catch up in their yard. They may be disarmingly nice and simple to talk to, and so they reveal a sort and gentle area in me personally that i prefer.

6 p.m.

We visit their own place which will make away and jack both off quite. Neither people come, but neither of us feels the requirement to. Something about setting up with C brings me into an extremely wonderful “head empty, no views” room. Along with other folks, my personal brain can wander regardless how much I’m experiencing the intercourse, however with C, i’m completely enveloped of the experience.

9 p.m.

C and I also kiss each other so long after the potluck. We get a journey returning to my personal neighborhood thinking about how sweet they truly are.

DAY FIVE

7 a.m.

K pertains to Philly now!

12:30 p.m.

K texts myself a lovely selfie of the lady on the Amtrak. We react with a heart-eyes emoji.

5:15 p.m.

K finds my apartment, and that I’m happy observe the lady. She’s had gotten incredible curls, strong doe sight, and a deliciously tight climber’s human anatomy. We met at a friend’s celebration. I becamen’t sure I was prepared for a relationship, but the emotional link ended up being too-good to not ever follow, despite the bullshit of cross country. Today she is thinking of moving Philly to be beside me (in order to get free from Boston). She’s been poly the woman entire sex existence and is also obtaining ahold of her very own bisexuality in the same manner Im. It feels very good to be with someone that is going through many same material as myself.

We an extended, sweet incorporate. We bury my face inside her tresses and inhale the woman fragrance. We undress and go onto sleep. At some point, cuddling turns to fucking. We’ve come to be specialists in each other’s pleasure. We finger her, and she utilizes a vibrator until she comes, then I shag their from behind and come within the woman — our very own eyes secured within the mirror I hung up next to my sleep. We simply take a couple of precious naked selfies collectively, subsequently distribute in both’s hands, our very own feet snuggled by my pet.

8 p.m.

We get up from our snooze and decide hitting up the kink meetup at a bar within my neighborhood. I am not used to the kink scene, but K’s already been doing it for some time. We make mild small-talk with of the attendees before K in the course of time works in the self-confidence to inquire of a fairly girl whom a few people are striking if she will be able to have a turn. As K deftly slaps your ex ass with a riding crop, the girl whimpers with pleasure, her straight back arching. I take into account the probability of appealing her house and fucking her together. But she’s indeed there together with her lovable (but clearly straight) sweetheart, and that I’m certain he is probably considering exactly the same thing about K.

11:30 p.m.

We go residence giddy with pleasure that K will go right here and then we’ll be able to try this everyday. I’m tired, but K is excellent at rousing myself once I’m sleepy. We bang and pass out in each other’s hands.

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DAY SIX

12:15 p.m.

We make use of the luncheon break to own gender. K is discovering some bi-gender material, so she wears a binder and I call the lady my personal child. Really don’t love being also prominent with women, but I actually do adore it with guys. I’ve the girl know me as “Daddy,” slapping her ass and fucking her hard. Neither people comes, but both of us get lots of delight from the jawhorse.

5:30 p.m.

Yoga class with K. V actually teaching this evening, but all functions have actually affirmed which wouldn’t be weird if she happened to be. During class, we idly imagine a post-yoga threesome with K and V.

7 p.m.

K and I also grab takeout along the way back from the studio, smoke weed, and view several periods of

Star Trek: Deep-space Nine

. (she actually is a huge follower.)

9 p.m.

K pegs me personally using band that individuals bought on the finally go here. We quiver with satisfaction. We are both surfaces but switch for every single different. She brings my personal hair, and I ride her strap in a lot of jobs. Whenever my anus can not go anymore, I screw her and arrive inside of the lady. I quickly have the lady down utilizing a mix of a vibrator and a metal insertable rod. She squirts a lot (we have now discovered to get a towel down), then will come frustrating, melting into my hands.

time SEVEN

8 a.m.

We wake-up before K acquire some

Elden Ring

time.

9:30 a.m.

K wakes upwards, therefore get bagels and coffee.

8 p.m.

After a somewhat low-key day, K and that I prepare going around with some friends to a local queer dancing evening. K does my eyeshadow, and I wear my black-leather utilize, fabric cuffs, and cat ears.

11 p.m.

We meet the pals at pub, who possess coke and mushrooms. K partakes of both, but we follow weed. There are a lot lovely males.

11:30


p.m.

A


good looking man with a Jersey feature appears in my opinion and excitedly says hello. I am visibly baffled until he reminds me personally which he’s D, the guy from my first Grindr hookup finally fall (really, one of them — it actually was a foursome in a hotel in which I found myself too nervous for hard). We expose him to K, who informs him its an honor.

12 a.m.

Dancing and flirting with cuties together (in addition to the drugs) have K and me buzzing and frisky. We enter your bathrooms stall, and she right away begins blowing me personally. The seediness associated with the entire knowledge is a huge turn on for both people.

1 a.m.

All of our friends imply you will find an after-party and likely an orgy, but both K and I tend to be running out of power and would like to capture a pilates class each morning. We just take an Uber residence, have some comfortable and sleepy intercourse, and fall asleep in one another’s hands.

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